‘“Don’t call me Naomi,” she responded. “Instead, call me Mara, for the Almighty has made life very bitter for me. I went away full, but the Lord has brought me home empty. Why call me Naomi when the Lord has caused me to suffer and the Almighty has sent such tragedy upon me?”’ Ruth 1:20-21 (NLT)
‘Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them. And do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the way you live. Remember, he has identified you as his own, guaranteeing that you will be saved on the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.’ Ephesians 4:29-32 (NLT)
Our parents described losing everything when the communists came to power in Romania. I remember them talking of their bitterness—and other people’s. Many unjust situations on earth can leave your soul bitter and empty. But that is only for a season when you trust God with your life.
When Naomi and Ruth left Moab, bitterness filled their souls, but God ordained their steps and planned a joyful future for them in Bethlehem. God turned Naomi’s despair to hope. She became the great-grandmother of King David when Ruth married and bore a son. That was God’s greatest blessing, being placed in the lineage of the Messiah. God compensated Naomi for her years of bitterness.
A godly, committed family and good, godly friends play an important role in turning our despair into joy, but above all, our hope, joy, and strength come from the Lord. Our transformation and renewal will likely take time, as with Naomi, but change will begin as soon as we ask God to renew our hearts. Whatever kind of hurt or hopelessness you might be feeling, turn to God and ask Him to heal your bitterness and restore your joy. God’s heart is broken for you.
from Supernatural Solutions For Your Emotions